Every person has the power to write his own story. Every person has the power to realize his own dreams. And even if these dreams don’t make it to one’s reality, in the end, what matters is that the person, who could be me or you, took the chance and we did what we knew we had to do. It’s not really about what we get, but more of what we become after that. The journey is more important than the destination, and it’s more exciting too! Let me tell you why.
I’ve traveled several times with friends. We went to places we thought we could only dream of. We explored cities, cultures, but what made it more exciting was the fact that we actually did it on our own. Equipped with a book, a map, research notes and a strong desire for adventure, we tread unfamiliar waters, finding every spot listed in our itinerary. And yes we succeeded, of course with a little help from the locals. Ticking off everything we had in our checklist felt really satisfying! When I look back, I realize I have actually gained more than just reaching destinations. I’ve learned and realized the value of:
Trust in me to be able to carefully plan out a trip, and carry it out.
Trust in my friends, their opinion, their suggestions. Trust that they’ll be there for me when I need them the most.
Trust in people we met along the way, those who offered help, directions, shared our cabin or room. Most of them even shared their own stories, and journeys, and well, some indulged us with chocolates and cherries. Most days we got lucky 🙂
Planning is essential and to me, it’s the most exciting part. You have to make up your mind about where you want to go, what you want to experience or accomplish, figure out how to get there, where to stay the night, etc. Everything had to be worked out given a specified timetable.
You have to learn to exercise this muscle especially when life throws you surprises. You have to make use of the time you have and the opportunity you’ve been given, to deliberately choose not to waste every single moment. Things may not always work out according to plan, but that’s just life telling you to pause, to relish the beauty around you, to talk to a stranger, to enjoy the rain. It’s good to welcome possibilities believing that everything that comes your way may actually be better for you. Delays and detours are not that bad you know.
You learn how to value the things being alive brings. Time, opportunity, experience, and people, to name a few.
You see, a lot of things would have already happened even before you reach the end of the journey. All of it honed you, accomplished something within you, and made you a better you. What’s between start to finish, is the greatest reward you’re gonna get. So write your own story, your own ending, but as you do, live the time in between, and live it to the full!